by Lilly Lewin
Start the Lenten season with a clean slate…and maple syrup
For many of us, we grew up with “lent” as something you’d find in the dryer or your belly button, rather than a season of the church year. So if you’re new to experiencing the season of Lent, you might be excited to know that we first get to celebrate with pancakes! Yep! I said pancakes: chocolate chip, strawberry and whipped cream, or just plain old flap jacks!
Pancake Tuesday is better known in Britain. In the United States, it’s also known as Shrove Tuesday, though we typically call it Fat Tuesday or Mardi Gras. Either way, the Tuesday before Lent is the day of celebration and confession before the fasting of the 40 days of Lent begins.
So what is Shrove Tuesday and why should you care? (Besides the fact that you get a good excuse to eat pancakes for dinner?) As a youth pastor, I became a fan because the youth group helped host the annual Shrove Tuesday pancake dinner each year. But people have been participating in Shrove Tuesday since the Middle Ages. Folks would clean out their pantries of all the fat—all the butter, eggs, milk, sugar, etc.—in preparation for the Lenten fast. Pancakes became a good way to eat these things that wouldn’t last through the Lenten season. The word “shrove” comes from “to shrive”: to confess and/or hear a confession and thus, be forgiven. So people would seek out forgiveness on Shrove Tuesday so they could begin Lent with a clean slate.
I like to celebrate Shrove Tuesday because it’s a great way to get your family and even your community together for fun and an opportunity for a time of confession. (We Protestants are not very good at confession so we need all the help we can get!)
Here are some ideas to help you start a tradition of Shrove Tuesday with your family or church community:
Some other tangible ways to do confession:
After writing down your sins, the junk that separates you from Jesus, and the burdens weighing you down,
However you choose to do your confession, actually do it and then celebrate together that your sins are forgiven.
While you are praying, remember those on the gulf coast and in New Orleans, the Mecca of Mardi Gras, who are still in recovery from Hurricane Katrina, and pray for them. Pray also for other places in the world that see only the party side of Fat Tuesday and not the opportunity to connect with God. Pray for the places of unrest throughout our world to be healed with God’s peace and reconciliation. (You can even use a map of the world or a current newspaper for inspiration as you pray!)
Check out this site for recipes and how to videos.
Now if you’re thinking, I wish I’d known about this LAST week, so I’d have some prep time, don’t be frustrated. Be creative! I’m a practitioner, not a legalist. So why not have a pancake dinner, lunch or even breakfast some time in the next week. Doesn’t have to be Tuesday. Or go out like I said before. Whenever you have the pancakes, make it the beginning of your Lenten season either as a family or a group.
And as we look at Ash Wednesday and the start of Lent, take today as a great opportunity to consider a Lenten practice for the next 40 days before Easter.
If you’ve never “celebrated” Lent before, why not give it a go? And if you grew up with a “sack cloth and ashes” view of Lent, let 2011 be a Lent reimagined. One of my favorite authors, Ed Hayes, says to use the 40 days of Lent as a honeymoon, to fall more in love with Jesus! My friend and former boss, Roger Foote, used to encourage us to add rather than subtract during Lent. Rather than giving up something for Lent, do something you’ve been meaning to do or neglected to do as your Lenten practice.
Rather than just giving up something like chocolate or TV, add something like:
Remember that if you choose to give up something as a part of Lent, like chocolate or TV, you can participate in this activity on Sundays during Lent because Sundays are feast days not fast days…but if you give up cursing, whining, etc. you might neglect this gift of freedom.
So go find your spatula and buy some syrup. Celebrate 1000 years of tradition and have a great Pancake Tuesday! And why not choose to fall more in love with Jesus during the weeks before Easter while you’re at it?
We are hearing from numerous youth ministers that during this season their plate is just too full. Caring for others is a ministry staple, but often it comes at the expense of caring for oneself. Self care for the Youth MInister is so important. If you don’t take time for yourself and your own relationship with God, not only will you suffer, but eventually your students will too.
We’ve created a Pandemic Youth Week curriculum bundle that combines elements of both a summer camp and a youth week. Many youth are missing out on both of these due to cancelled camps and trips among other cancelled important events your youth would usually attend. We’ve written this curriculum such that it can be used in person while socially distancing, online, or some combination of both.
Despite all the challenges the pandemic has presented to youth ministries, it has also created an opportunity to allow youth more involvement in worship. Although youth sunday will look very different this year, it is a great opportunity to empower our youth to be leaders. Youth’s comfort and familiarity with technology make them a great resource for churches who are seeking to move their worship services online for the first time.